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Normal Human Stats

Modern life, measured.

How we actually spend our time, money, and meals โ€” on average. No judgment, just data. Patterns vary widely by age, household, and region, but these snapshots help answer: "Is this normal?"

"Normal" here reflects broad population patterns, not a standard to meet. Your mileage will vary.
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How We Eat

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America's Comfort Food Rankings

What we love to eat (and admit to loving)

#1๐ŸŸFrench Fries
#2๐Ÿ”Cheeseburger
#3๐Ÿฅ”Mashed Potatoes
#4๐Ÿง€Grilled Cheese
#5๐Ÿ—Fried Chicken
๐Ÿ•Pizza
55%
๐Ÿ”Hamburgers
48%
๐ŸฆIce Cream
46%
๐ŸŸFrench Fries
45%
๐Ÿง€Mac & Cheese
39%
๐Ÿฅ”Potato Chips
39%
๐ŸชCookies
38%
๐Ÿ—Fried Chicken
34%

4 of the top 5 are fried or cheese-based. We know what we like.

Sources: YouGov Food Popularity Rankings, The Shelby Report (n=2,000)

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๐Ÿ‘จโ€๐Ÿ‘ฉโ€๐Ÿ‘งโ€๐Ÿ‘ฆ

The Family Dinner Myth

How often families actually eat together

29%
of U.S. families eat dinner together every night
Every night
29%
4-6 nights/week
23%
2-3 nights/week
16%
Less often / never
32%
49%
Always cook at home
43%
Sometimes cook
8%
Never cook

The Norman Rockwell family dinner? Only 1 in 3 families actually do it regularly.

Sources: The Family Dinner Project, PMC Population Survey

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What We Search vs What We Eat

The gap between recipe aspirations and dinner reality

๐ŸŒBanana Bread
๐ŸฅฉMeatloaf
๐ŸŒถ๏ธChili
๐ŸฅžPancakes
๐ŸชChocolate Chip Cookies
๐ŸžFrench Toast
๐Ÿฝ๏ธWhat's Actually for DinnerWhat we actually make
๐Ÿ—Grilled Chicken
๐ŸŒฎTacos / Ground Beef
๐Ÿ•Pizza (often frozen)
๐ŸPasta
๐ŸฅชSandwiches
๐Ÿ–Pork Chops / BBQ
๐Ÿค” The Aspiration Gap
Banana bread ๐ŸŒโ†’๐Ÿ• Frozen pizza
Homemade cookies ๐Ÿชโ†’๐Ÿฅช Ham sandwich
Elaborate chili ๐ŸŒถ๏ธโ†’๐ŸŒฎ Taco Tuesday

We search for comfort baking but eat for convenience. The Pinterest dream vs the Tuesday reality.

Sources: Recipe search trends, consumer meal preference surveys

Compiled from multiple public sources; patterns are directional

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Takeout Nation

America's relationship with delivery & dining out

57%
of Americans prefer ordering takeout or delivery
๐Ÿ“ฑ
~4.5x
per month
Takeout orders
๐Ÿฝ๏ธ
~3x
per month
Restaurant visits
49%
43%
8%
Always cook
Sometimes
Never
๐Ÿฅก Chinese #1๐ŸŒฎ Mexican๐Ÿœ Thai๐Ÿ› Indian๐Ÿฑ Korean

Food = 13% of household spending โ€” and $4,266/yr goes to restaurants

Sources: US Foods, BLS Consumer Expenditure Survey 2023

Dining frequency figures are survey-based estimates

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Where Money Goes

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Where the Money Goes

Average U.S. household annual spending

$77,280
per year (up 5.9% from 2022)
๐Ÿ Housing
33%
$25,432/yr
๐Ÿš—Transportation
17%
$13,138/yr
๐Ÿ”Food
13%
$9,969/yr
๐Ÿ›ก๏ธInsurance & Pensions
12%
$9,583/yr
๐ŸฅHealthcare
8%
$6,182/yr
๐ŸŽฌEntertainment
5%
$3,632/yr
๐Ÿ“ฆEverything else
12%
Clothing, gifts, misc
๐Ÿ” Food breakdown
Groceries$5,703/yr
Restaurants$4,266/yr
$2,119
Housing per MONTH
$1,095
Transportation per MONTH

Housing + Transportation = 50% of all spending

Source: Bureau of Labor Statistics Consumer Expenditure Survey 2023

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The Subscription Trap

How much we pay for stuff we barely use

$127
wasted per year on unused subscriptions
$42/mo
Streaming only
โ†“ 23% from 2023
$90/mo
All subscriptions
$1,080/year
2.8
Avg paid subscriptions
โ†“ from 4.1 in 2024
55%
Have unused subs
~$127/yr wasted
NetflixSpotifyDisney+Amazon PrimeHuluMaxYouTube PremiumApple TV+

Streaming fatigue is real: 28% feel overwhelmed by the number of apps. People are cutting back.

Sources: Reviews.org 2024, CNET 2025, Self Financial

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How We Spend Time

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Where the Day Goes

The average American's 24 hours

24
hours
๐Ÿ˜ด Sleeping
8.8 hrs (37%)
๐ŸŽฎ Leisure
4.2 hrs (18%)
๐Ÿ’ผ Working
3.7 hrs (15%) *avg all adults
๐Ÿงน Housework
1.8 hrs (8%)
๐Ÿฝ๏ธ Eating
1.2 hrs (5%)
๐Ÿ‘จโ€๐Ÿ‘ฉโ€๐Ÿ‘ง Caring
0.8 hrs (3%)
๐Ÿ›’ Shopping
0.8 hrs (3%)
๐Ÿ“š Education
0.5 hrs (2%)
Half of leisure time = TV
~2 hours/day watching screens for fun (not counting phones)
*Workers actually put in ~8 hrs/day
3.7 hrs is the average across ALL adults (including unemployed, retired, weekends)

We spend more time sleeping than working, eating, and shopping combined

Source: Bureau of Labor Statistics American Time Use Survey

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Where Free Time Goes

Working days vs. days off

๐Ÿ’ผWorking DayEmployed, weekdays
๐Ÿ˜ด Sleep
7.6 hrs
๐Ÿ’ผ Work
8.4 hrs
๐ŸŽฎ Leisure
3 hrs
๐Ÿฝ๏ธ Eating
1.1 hrs
๐Ÿงน House
1 hrs
๐Ÿ“ฆ Other
2.9 hrs
๐Ÿ Day OffWeekends, etc.
๐Ÿ˜ด Sleep
9.5 hrs
๐Ÿ’ผ Work
0 hrs
๐ŸŽฎ Leisure
5.8 hrs
๐Ÿฝ๏ธ Eating
1.3 hrs
๐Ÿงน House
2.5 hrs
๐Ÿ“ฆ Other
4.9 hrs
๐Ÿ“บ Watching TV 2.1h๐Ÿ’ฌ Socializing 0.6h๐Ÿƒ Exercise 0.3h๐Ÿ“– Reading 0.3h๐ŸŽฎ Gaming 0.3h
๐Ÿ“ฐ 2025 Trend

37% of Americans used vacation days just to sleep last year

Source: Amerisleep survey, Sept 2025

On days off, we gain +2.8 hrs leisure but also sleep 2 hrs longer

Compiled from multiple sources. Main Source: Bureau of Labor Statistics American Time Use Survey.

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Life & Wellness

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When Life Happens

Peak ages for major transitions (and how they're shifting)

20s-30s
๐Ÿ• Getting a pet
7 in 10 Gen Z prefer pets over kids
โ†‘ 43% more Gen Z pet owners in 2024
28-30
๐Ÿ’ Getting married
Median: 30 (men), 28 (women)
โ†‘ Was 22 in 1956
~30
๐Ÿ‘ถ Having first child
Median age for first birth: 30.4
โ†‘ Was 21 in 1970
25-44
๐Ÿ’ผ Changing jobs
~12 jobs over a lifetime โ€ข Tenure: 2.7 yrs (ages 25-34)
๐Ÿšซ MYTH: "Millennials job-hop more"
Boomers actually changed jobs MORE at same ages
38-40
๐Ÿ  Buying first home
First-timers: 40. All buyers: 56 (!)
โ†‘ Was 28 in 1991
45-54
๐Ÿ’ฐ Peak earnings
Highest median income bracket
โ†’ Consistent
40-50
๐Ÿ˜” Happiness dip
The "midlife slump" is real
โ†’ Universal pattern
50+
๐Ÿ˜Š Happiness rebounds
The U-curve: it gets better
โ†‘ Peaks in 60s-70s
โœจ
Life milestones keep shifting later โ€” but research shows happiness rebounds after 50 and often peaks in your 60s. The timeline is changing, not the destination.

Sources: U.S. Census Bureau, NAR 2025, BLS, CDC, APPA, NIRS, Gallup Well-Being Index

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What Stresses America Out

Personal pressures vs. societal anxieties

๐Ÿ˜“
Day-to-Day Stress
๐Ÿฅ Health
66%
๐Ÿ’ผ Work
65%
๐Ÿ’ฐ Money
64%
๐Ÿ‘จโ€๐Ÿ‘ฉโ€๐Ÿ‘ง Family
47%
๐Ÿšจ Personal Safety
39%
โš–๏ธ Discrimination
26%

APA Stress in America 2024

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Societal Stress
๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ Future of Nation
76%
๐Ÿ“ฐ Disinformation
69%
๐Ÿ’” Societal Division
62%
๐Ÿค– Rise of AI
57%

APA Stress in America 2025

76% stressed about the nation's future โ€” the top stressor across all categories

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๐Ÿ“Š Methodology โ€” How this is built

Normal Human Stats compiles and visualizes publicly available research and survey data to answer a simple question: "Am I normal?"

Sources may include:

  • U.S. government datasets (BLS, Census, CDC)
  • Public time-use and spending surveys
  • Academic and nonprofit research
  • Widely cited public polling and consumer studies

All data shown represents aggregated, high-level findings intended to reflect broad patterns โ€” not individual behavior or predictions. Figures are drawn from multiple public sources and may represent different samples and years. These datasets vary in methodology and sampling; they are shown side-by-side for context, not for strict statistical comparison.

Visuals are simplified and contextualized to make complex data easier to understand, compare, and question.

This page is about reality checks, not prescriptions.

Last updated: December 2025

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